Hi please can I have a private post
I need some advice
So last night I went through my partners phone. I know it was wrong and I shouldn’t but I had a feeling he was messaging another girl as we haven’t been the greatest recently.
Anyway as I was looking I went on to his photos and I found a video that he had taken of us having sex and doing other things. This video was taken without my consent and at the beginning of the video you can see him hiding his phone I had no idea it was there.
He has asked me before if he can record us and I have always said no as I have put on alot of weight and feel very insecure. When we first got together we did make one but I deleted it.
I feel so hurt that he has taken a video of it all without my consent and as I stated you can see him hiding the phone at the beginning of the video.
Would any1 else feel hurt and betrayed by this?
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Simple you didn’t give your consent.. & no means no
It’s all about Trust & he’s broke that