Can I please have a private post
My partners mum and dad asked him and his kids to go on holiday to Spain for a week and his brother and sister in law and there kids but not me or my kids I have only been with my partner for a year should he have said what about asking my partner but he never do I have the right to be a pi**ed off xx
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He’s not your husband.
Dont let his family treat you like that leave him asap as you will never be included in his family stuff xx
Yes you do
Its up to him to say something to his family and if you and your kids are not invited, he shouldn’t go
They are definitely not welcoming you to the family! How sad wtf is wrong with them? Have you been included before or not? There’s something not right here!
you have a right to be annoyed at him, but zero right to be pissed if his parents aren’t paying for you and your kids to go along. obviously your partner can’t think much of you or your kids as he could of said he would like for you and the children to go along but you and him pay for you and your children to go on this holiday. Why don’t you mention this to your partner. But if you are expecting them to pay for you to go that’s very cheeky on your part as they have no duty to you or your children.
They know ye are together and stuff ya ?
I’d be annoyed if so.
What has your partner said
Really depends on if you have any kind of relationship either way his family or not. Do you meet up in general with them ?are you in friendly terms. It really depends on a lot of things. Not just because use are a couple. So only you and his family really know how well use all get on together or if use are familiar enough with them all. After all it’s a holiday. So can’t be having u and ur kids feeling left out on the holiday. Better be home feeling left out than on a holiday feeling like a third wheel and then ur partner feeling stuck in the middle.
Yes definitely xx