Please could I have an anonymous post…
Ive been with my partner around 4 years, he is supposedly bisexual. He constantly comments on men and says derogatory things about women. And since we have had kids together he’s constantly pulling me down calling me a shit mum, I don’t clean, I can’t cope etc. which is all lies I work full time was back to work after 6 weeks with both kids and I have a well paid job. I also do as much as I can around work and childcare. The kids come first. He constantly belittles me and it’s at a point where my 2 and a half year old tells him to stop. I just do t k ow what to do we have a good life as in what we have but that isn’t everything I don’t want my kids around the narcissistic behaviour, he’s even gone as far as getting physically abusive after a drink. He clearly has some issues with himself but takes it out on me yet doesn’t listen and isn’t willing to acknowledge it accept he needs to change his ways or causes issues or even how he make some feel. Never mind the kids. I know th post is vague and I know I’m acknowledging half of it. I’m just at a loss where to turn, no e of my friends like him not my family and I am different now, I do love him. But I don’t love how I’m made to feel daily and it’s dragging me down never mind young children witnessing it. Thoughts please.
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stop allowing him to treat you like this. get rid of him
Get rid of him before he gets even more physical and causes mental health issues for you and your kids x
he’s being mean to you for you to end the relationship as he’s a coward and wont do it himself. I don’t think he’s bi sexual he’s probably more gay. sit down with him and ask him clearly what he wants. Does he want to be with you or does he want to live another life. Its not fair on you the way he’s treating you and from what you’ve wrote your unhappy too. He’s pushing you away by the way he’s acting. he sounds a bit mentally unstable to me. don’t tolerate any form of abuse! you and the kids deserve better
Iv been in a similar position other then the bi part and I am telling you now you do not deserve this and there is a better life out there for you, my children grew up with it and I wish I had left sooner we are all a lot happier now xx