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Hey everyone
Just want a bit of advice or just in general what people think , I’ve been with my husband 8 years married one year. When we got together there was chemistry and we would have sex on a regular basis , forward a few years and it got to every few months , we have been married a year now and we still haven’t had sex I know it’s not the be all and end all but still it’s nice to have that connection ! He might hug and kiss me once in a while. I spoke to him about this months ago and he said he has no labedo ( however you spell it 🤣) I said well that doesn’t mean I haven’t he also blames the kids like we haven’t got time I wouldnt mind but they are all at school 🤣 , I just don’t know where to go from here , I want to feel loved I want that connection where I shouldn’t have to remind someone for a hug or a kiss .
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Just walk in the room naked that will get his attention 😜 make sure the kids are at school though 🤣🤣 have fun xx
Can I ask your ages? He might have lack of testosterone. Men go through a male menopause. It must be really difficult and not being intimate in over a year is unusual, especially if there is no affection at all. Do you get along every other way? I know you cant answer but maybe just a question to ask yourself. Have you asked him if he still finds you attractive etc? Maybe its time to have a talk if you can x