Hiya
Im a married woman but it is not a happy marriage this past 18 months .We have been together over 20 years. And have 4 children together the youngest is 15. We sleep in different rooms and we dont do much as a couple. We just run the house together as best we can. We still have 6 years left on our mortgage. The kids definitely notice things are not right. I have a little money of my own but not a lot. I need advive
There is a lot of awkwardness and silences
But im always a good mum to the children .
That will never change .
I need advice
Please be kind
Im going round and round in circles every day thinking what to do
Thanks
From a broken woman
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Leave. Nothing worse than being in a loveless marriage. There is better to come x
Start saving for leaving is your best option if there is no relationship together do whats best for yourself, housings shopping bills ect dont rely on him to think what’s best always have money to fall back on
2 options really
1. start dating again go out on dates find the reasons use got together again if you haven’t already start sleeping in same bedroom.
2. Literally split down middle divorce ask him if he wants one or try and get marriage sorted.
Have the brutal honest convo, understand how each other feels. This convo will hopefully open a one of 2 doors. To work on improving ur marrige or time to leave. Trust ur gut. As painful these truths are. This is a eye opener to ur new future. You deserved to be treated well. Gotta start that with urself. All the best x
You have one life. Live it
Ask him for divorce get house on market and split the money….Then start living…good luck x