Hi can i have a ppp?
My 10 month old baby girl seems to be going through a sleep regression, she was an amazing sleeper and slept through the night for so long! Me and her father split and he moved out and about a week and a half after she become really unsettled at night,, she has got a tooth coming through the top left hand side i can just feel a little spike,, she already has two bottom teeth,, when i leave the room she used to just crack on with her toys but now all i have to do is stand up and walk away and she cries,, she did start pulling herself up and walking along the furniture too around the time he left,, im not sure if its seperation anxiety,, teething, sleep regression because its just what happens at this age or if its because hes gone now. He has her some weekends here and there and says she sleeps fine at his. I want to ask him what he does but he barley gives me updates as it is when he has her i have to beg just for a photo of her befor bed,, i just feel like she really misses him and is more comfortable with him if she settles better for him?
If she woke befor i would put her dummy in and she would go straight back to sleep but the past few weeks that rarley works,, i try rockin her and she will fall back to sleep so i try and put her back in her cot, she wakes up and cries,, ill put her in my bed and she falls instantly back to sleep and its 50/50 if i can move her back into her cot without her waking,, i absolutley love having her in my bed and snuggling but i dont know if this is the best idea as i dont want to cause bad habbits? Or am i just being horrible thinking that and should just accept she wants to be in bed with me so keep at that if its comfoting her?
Im a light sleeper for the most part even if she moves slightly in her cot i wake up but with how tired im feelin at the moment im so worried i wont wake up if shes in the bed with me and she does and she falls! My beds pressed against the wall and i always put her on the inside but i know this isnt the safest option,, i just need sleep myself, i work 3 days a week too since she was 4 and a half months and i just feel so drained at the moment and just dont know what is best for her? Any advice please x
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My.boy went through a bad sleep regression at 10month, was a brilliant sleeper, just cried everytime I put him to bed wouldn’t settle. Only thing that worked was putting him in his buggy and pushing him to sleep, this went on for about 3/4 weeks. I then just started to put him back into his bed. His now 18months and sleeping all night.
Do what you need to for a sleep,i remember my bed being an a big cot at 1 point ….. i had sides on both & at the bottom. My sons still come in through the night & they are 7 & 6. Its just a comfort 🥰
I would do what I had to to get some proper sleep. Iv done it loads with my 2 year old and it’s never turned into a bad habit. Most nights she sleeps in her cot right through and some she wakes and wants a cuddle. X
Might be a silly question but does your ex snore?
The baby could actually have been getting soothed by the fog horn noise 😂