Hi can I have ppp i was un a relationship for 3 years with a man who beat me, choked me bit me ext, I finally found the courage to leave him and a month later I met this amazing man! He turned my whole world uo side down and for a year it was perfect, I was diagnosed with a terminal illness a few years ago and im getting polierer so it’s going to be another year of me struggling before im in a wheelchair, anyway things have changed with my partner, hes bang in cocain and hes bad woth drunk. When he has vodka he is vile, calls me a bad mum, im lazy I do nothing ect and the verbal annuse is extra! When we get into an argument he says the same shit to me he makes me feel so low at times but when things are good there perfect. He is like the male version of me in every way but he won’t take his meds the doctors said he has to take, the thing im trying to say is he is verbally abbused me and im petrified to be aline because I jnow im dying. What can I do??
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Get out. Life’s precious you have enough going on
Without his Toxic behaviour
Leave him you need to spend your days happy
I’m so sorry about your illness.you left DV which is great .I know from experience how terribly hard that is.your partner does not sound to good I wouldn’t want his behaviour on top off what your coping with he is emotionally abusing you .the rest of the life you have left should be happy and doing anything you would love to do before it’s too late.if this was me I’d be finishing the awful relationship just because he hasn’t hit you it doesn’t mean it’s not abuse.you should try to enjoy what time you have left.again I’m so sorry .sending 💜🤗