Can I have a private post please
This is a sensitive issue please no judging. Iv been with my husband 13 years and I have a spending addiction and always relied on him financially we both don’t work as he is physically disabled and I’m mentally disabled. No judging please I would work if I could. I can barely do housework because my meds make me me so sedated so my husband does most of it. I feel so bad im not good enough for him. We have 2 children together 12 and 9 and we both love them dearly. We argue a lot though but can’t seem to let each other go. He gets down because he needs more help but I’m unable to give it to him. What do I do we both need caring for in reality because of our conditions so in that way we clash. He does a lot and I just can’t give it back im ashamed. Please no hate just advice please
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How are your children being cared for and supported, if you both have physical and mental health conditions that’s where my concern would be prioritised, if your husband is hardly able to do anything and your sedated all the time and you both argue alot because of this ? I’m not being horrible but it seems like child services need to be involved
What about your children who cares for them? X
You should find out what support you are entitled to the right support for you both could make a big difference
Could you get home help for a couple of days a week either that or if possible hire a cleaner daily or twice a week or what you can afford
Would lighten the load and maybe prevent any frustration between you both
You may see your relationship improve 🤷🏼♀️
Could you speak with your Gp and ask for Alternative medication 💊 with less side effects explain you feel like
You can’t do much but you want too 🤷🏼♀️
Maybe speak with each other and decide on a day or night every week you spend with each other
One evening a month cinema or something like a date night /day
Get that spark back
Can you reply we have the children but a lot of time they just watch TV or go on there tablets. I try taking them out ect when I can. My husband will have them a lot to. There happy kids but I’m worried what our relationship is doing to them 😣