Can I have a private post please?
Just looking for advice as I have no idea who to turn too!!
So last week me and the bf (my babies daddy) went to a party and I had a little too much to drink when we got home I went strait to sleep then I woke up but thought I was dreaming but couldn’t move or talk… then realised it was reality… he was trying to do me up the backside!! Now he knows this is defiantly a no go area and has been for the 8 years we have been together but he was still trying his luck!!
When I finally shouted owww (all I could get out as it felt like my body went into shock) he carried on! It took all my energy to sit my self up and I just burst out crying saying he hurt me!! He was telling me how sorry he was he just slipped .. now i know this is defiantly a lie!!
I was a bit tipsy but not drunk and I knew exactly what was going on!
We woke up next morning and he didn’t say anything about it as if it was no big deal but I can’t sleep and I just feel like what ever he says to me is bull shit!
I already suffer from really bad anxiety and don’t like nights in the house on my own and his the only one around and that’s why I can’t bring my self to tell him to go!!
I hope this has made sense I’m just so hurt after 8 years of trusting him!!
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He needs reporting that’s attempted rape. I hope your okay 🥰
I know exactly were that rolling pin would be heading…give him a taste of his own medicine…
Oh angel I’m so so so sorry 😔 please speak to some one this is assault don’t go through this alone
Sorry but this needs reporting ur boyfriend or not, that’s wrong the fact he knows hes ur safe place and now its been broken, I am sorry u have been though that hurt xx
That is assault and you need to figure out what you want can’t stay cuz it’s comfortable/safe
Wow weather you think it or not he tried to sodamise you without your consent ….its a big deal …sorry you experienced this has its always been out of bounds for me too xx
So he sexually assaulted you then. Parent of your child or not. It is still SA. I am sorry you experienced this.
I’m so sorry lovely but he’s raped you, or sexually assaulted you if anyone wants to get technical but that’s what it is. I’m so sorry you’ve experienced this, I’m so so sorry. There are lots of people you can speak to about the trauma of this before it takes over your life and to help cope with what happened. But you won’t feel safe with him in the house it’s you. I’m so sorry.
He’d be out the door so fast his feet wouldn’t touch the floor 🤬 that is not a person that loves u .
I’m sorry this has happened to you. It sounds like you would both benefit from couples therapy. I don’t like the sound of him, from what I’ve read so far. If he won’t agree to couples therapy that’s an indication that he doesn’t want to put effort into repairing the damage he’s done to the trust in your relationship 😞