Hi please post anonymously,
After advice I have toddler both me and my partner work but l feel im the one always out of pocket my husband pays the bills and my income pays for food shopping and childcare and clothes etc but end of month I always short on money and have to ask partner money to help which I always get told I cant keep giving you money do you know how much bills and all cost then feel awful recently started giving him money to help a little but leaves me even more out of pocket I have no money for myself anymore and feel sad I already work 30 hrs a week do I work more to help more just hard juggling work and toddler and cost of living is ridiculous right now .
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Stop giving him money.
I’d be asking him if he realises how much food shopping and childcare costs x
Do you qualify for 30 hours a week funding? That would save on childcare costs.
You both need to sit down and go through your finances together and say this is what I’m spending this is what you’re spending we need to work out where we’re going wrong where we’re going right with what we are spending
2 ways
work out exactly how much u both earn Take 75% of each wage pop into a joint account and pay for everything
.bills ,food, clothes .
.or work out exactly how much tbe out goings are and pay half each ..