Private please,
Me and my sister do not get along.
It’s not like we argue every now and then it’s to the point she gives me death threats and I feel really let done because of it.
She finds me disgusting and tells me that in front of family and friends for no reason.
It’s just a load of tit for tat ect but she takes it too far and is a rude person. Her best friends and family say it aswell but she doesn’t care at all. Any tips or advice please let me know.
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Get rid of her. You don’t need her in your life. Just because she’s blood doesn’t mean you have to put up with her or keep her around. Family is about how someone treats you, not just sharing the same blood. X
I hate the argument ‘but theyre family’🥴, yeah which is exactly why its worse and its definitely not acceptable.
Going no contact will be hard at first, you might feel guilty or have people try to make you feel guilty for doing whats best for you, but would you allow anybody else to treat you that way? A random person? Your friend? A partner? No. She is your sister by relation, she is abusive, a bully and disrespectful to you, cut her off and enjoy your peace and mental health. When she decides to grow up and treat you like a person if you want to reconcile the relationship decide when you see actual change but dont allow anyone to treat you in such a way set a boundary it sets the precedent for others too, and anybody who has an issue with you setting a boundary with abusive also needs cutting off.
Only those who benefit from your lack of boundaries has a problem when you set them.