Hi sorry to message but my head is fried. Can I have a private post please lovelies?
So I’ve been best mates with this guy for as long as I can remember we grew up together. We’ve had a few hiccups in the past (sex wise) etc and carried on as best mates no dramas. But He tells me everything and vice versa. We both love each other endlessly and tell each other all the time at the end of each call etc too or messages before bed nothing sneaky as his partner has seen certain messages.
So here’s the snag he’s been in a relationship and had kids with someone seperate, we still get on great and that. But recently he’s been asking why I’ve gone distant. I told him because he now has a family etc so I’ve just pulled back a bit. I’m still there for him but not for the other stuff. But he’s constantly telling me loves me, misses me and wishes he was with me.. 3 weeks ago he turned up at mine out the blue late at nightas he had a death in the family and he was upset. Asked him why he come to me and he said partner was in bed and it was me he needed to speak to about it. I told him he needed to go back home and speak about it to partner but he knows how to work me. So I told him if anything happens again I’m speaking to his partner. I feel like crap as I’ve known him and been best mates with him for as long as I remember.
But clearly he doesn’t feel the same about me or he wouldn’t be playing both of us. Sorry for the long post my heads wrecked
Sorry if it don’t make sense I’m a bit of a mess tonight stressing xx
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