Hoping I could have a private post please
Looking for help and support
Iam 30 years old with a 2 year old and a 4 month old baby both my pregnancies were hard going but especially with my baby girl who’s 4 months old Iam struggling with postpartum depression and I attended regular hospital appointments due to my physical health
But iam really struggling to cope at the moment with the two kids mostly when they are both crying needing my attention my son the 2 year old has been granted an emergency placement for nursery for 8-10 weeks so I can attend appointments and other things
My husband works long hours and helps when he can we moved house closer to family members for support but unfortunately they family members have not been very supportive and just caused more stress recently
Am really hoping things get easier in due course but I can’t help think about all the negative things all the time like when the baby is crawling and moving about ect and how much more stressful things are going to be she’s just a clingy baby and just cries all the time as she wants held 24/7
I think Iam just looking for somone to tell me it’s going to be ok and Iam just in a rut at the moment and that it does get better
Source
It does get better and away from ypur belief it will be harder when shes moving is completely wrong. I have 3 kids at home.husbamd works away from home alot, 10, 3 and 1 its hard going … it was 2 under 2 an when the middle one started crawling it was actually easier.. keep ur chin up you got this .. an it does get easier.