Hi There, can you post anon please:
I am 35, nearly 36 and myself and my husband have 2 kids – 4.5 and almost 2 Yr old.
I really want a 3rd, i dont feel like I’m finished yet but he is adamant we are done.
I honestly dont know how to resolve this because we are both adamant on our own wants. I know he is just trying to be realistic in relation to careers, our home, car, child care etc and I had a very difficult time after my 2nd baby with post partum.
Has anyone else been in this position and what did you do or how did you resolve it? I just feel like I’m not “done” but I know for 1000% 1 more would be the last my body and mind would be able for. Should I just accept that he’s just being realistic and try move past the want of a 3rd myself?
Any advice would be appreciated ❤️
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