kids. But you always get told it takes a village to raise them. What do you do…

kids. But you always get told it takes a village to raise them.

What do you do if your village isnt there?

What do you do to be able to trust someone with your whole world? (My child)

Where is my village when i need them 😭

Fallen out with siblings.

Parents split, nassistic mother

And father is unwell 😭

Can’t ask for help because to scared and to shy. I’ve asked for it in the past and been told, my child my problem.

My childs AUDHD and in a kind way alot of people dont understand it.

there meltdowns are hard, not cause we dont parent them right, its because there brains work different.

Telling a autistic parent to deal with there childs behaviour better or parent them better, or another one ive been told is they need a peice of 2X4……

Sounds stupid but those comments hurt and are taken to heart.

Autistic children have meltdowns when they are overwhelmed by there surroundings ( well mine dose) but its no excuses to tell the parent that they are failing.

We are dealing with family violence, death threats, and more….. ( we are “safe” at the moment womans reffuge are invovled)

My mental health is so bad, i dont leave the house unless its nesserry.

Ive been put down by so many people its hard to believe im doing the right thing for my child even though i know i am.

Its hard to believe im a good parent, after mine consistantly told me to kill my self.

Its hard being me and knowing there are cruel people telling my kids dad that im neglecting my kids, just because she dosnt like me.

People that know me personally and have watch me raise my children know id do anything to protect them.

Somedays i just wanna sleep and not wake up, but then get reminding ever morning why i do get up my children 🥰……

My mind is a mess and i feel like im failing as a parent cause im honestly not coping.

I’m not asking for anything just needed to vent sorry in a safe place.

Im not attention seeking, i have just been mentally abused by my own family and genuinely have lost my self on the way.

I’ve done everything i possibably can to keep us safe, to keep my kids safe.

Yet i failed as a parent in my eyes……


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