I have been with my wife for 18 years and married nearly 16. I have noticed that Body image around weight gain/loss has been one of her consistent struggles over the years.
Going up or down in weight I can confidently say that I have positively supported her throughout the years but unfortunately I have been there to comfort her during the very low moments where I had to wipe tears away from her face. It is my philosophy as a husband when it comes to weight gain or loss for whatever reason We should be their Encourager and Not their Reminder!
Today my wife posted a picture in this full piece swimsuit in which she looked absolutely remarkable š and she received some small cunty ass feedback. She has big boobs (Iām blessed) but get over it. She canāt do anything about it. I can tell you, however, is that sheās agonized over it to makes sure sheās ācoveredā as much as possible still to this day.
Iām not here to defend my wife, sheās a big girl! What I find strange is that most of those commenters came from women? Come on!! Letās be more supportive of eachother!! If your 400lb and you lost 10 FUCK YES š„³š„³ keep it up! If youāre one of those fit fuckers at 115lbs and just hit your six 6min mile FUCK YES š„³ get it girl! If youāre a mother(or anyone)of three that that finally feels brave to post a pic of herself in a swim suit POST THE SHIT OUT OF IT!!