Hi, please can I have a private post, no name?
Just need opinions please!
I’m curious to know how often your kids have a sleep over at their grandparents houses?! I always used to be at my grandparents, most weekends in fact (out of choice, I loved going there!) and now my parents want to do the same for my little one… as much as once a week or once a fortnight to ice me and my partner time to relax together. I’m just struggling because I get terrible anxiety, I worry about everything and would always rather do everything myself, and I don’t want to affect her routine!! My parents follow my rules 1000% they respect my parenting and I’m really close to them so I’m not worried about that at all, but my LO is such a good sleeper and has a fantastic routine that we’ve worked hard to achieve. me and my partner could really do with some quality time together, but I guess i feel guilty my LO going out for a sleep over, or that it would screw up her routine or un settle her?! My LO is 2, and we live a 5 min drive away from my parents xx
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I would push myself and let her go.. once you see everything was ok your anxiety will reduce. Xxx id also suggest go to your GP about your anxiety. Xxx I had postpartum anxiety I hide very well . But when I got pregnant on baby number 2 I had to tell someone. Xxxx ❤️
We try every 8 weeks for a sleepover at my mums. My mum lives on her own and is still working full time. But we always used to go to my Grandma’s. She sees her on facetime atleast once maybe twice a day and we see each other quite a bit at our house. We live about 40 mins apart x
Grab there offer with both hands , everyone a winner, grandparents get to bond, little one will love it , ur only 5 min away and yiu both get to be more than just a mom and dad again