Hi can I have an anon post please?
Ive recently found out im pregnant with baby number 3, and Id love another child however.. with my last baby I nearly died and it was extremely traumatic. I had a severe pph due to undiagnosed placenta accreta (a life threatening condition). Id come to terms id have no more children as advised, so now im pregnant im really unsure what to do. I wont know if I definitely have the same condition again until much later (20 weeks +) IF it does show up as it doesnt always and if I do i will have to have a ceasearan hysterectomy which I will be put to sleep for and kept in hospital after. At the moment I cant get excited about this baby as im so full of worry, every time I start looking at baby stuff I then get full of dread at the thought I might die and leave my 2 kids motherless one who is SEN and relies on me heavily. Can i please have people’s honest opinions… would you risk it and continue the pregnancy knowing theres a high chance you have the condition again and a risky delivery, or would you terminate the pregnancy?
I want honest answers please, im in 2 minds and wont be offended by any answers thank you 🙏
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Me personally wouldn’t risk my health or life especially with 2 children already but that’s just me🤷♀️hope all goes well for u x