Can I have a post please. Pregnant with my second child (son is three next March) and I’ve found out I’m having another boy. My son has been asking for a sister (not that I’m sure he fully understands) and for me this is my last child so I feel a little sad I’ll never have a daughter. The reason for this and I know it’s probably daft is I have a really close relationship with my mum, and people are so negative asking will we be trying again for a girl in future. I’m not great when it comes to hair, makeup, I like shopping but not overly, I’m more into outdoors activities, gaming, sports etc so I guess in that sense more suited to being a boy mum. I’ve also been told about the saying a daughter for life a son until a wife. I don’t know how to feel…. And I’m not ungrateful for my son, I just feel like i don’t want to miss having a really close bond as they both get into their adult years. If anyone has any advice from their own experience that would help. I’m not that close with my MIL either which probably doesn’t help but she’s not much of a talker and it’s difficult to grow that so she’s been less involved with the pregnancies unlike my own mum which I don’t think helps either. Thank you xx
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