I am getting married the end of October next year and obviously very very excited. But I do have a big big big issue, my eldest son 23 and my brother 46 both want to give me away as my father passed away many years ago. I have said they could both do it but they don’t get on. Who would you choose?
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Your son x
I would have one on either side if they don’t like it they don’t get to walk you down the isle !!
Yeah I’d have both! Seen that loads of times at weddings x
I’d say both but if not then your son.
Tell them to suck it up and be civil for that one day so they can both walk you down the Isle, but if they cant they 100% your son x
my grandad walked me down the aisle. my brother then gave me away xxx
I’d say ur son
I choose my brother just because of the fact that my brother’s been around for me longer than my son has been and my son hadn’t shouldn’t have to take the shoes of a man’s place when he is my son so I personally think you should have your brother do it just because he’s been there through everything in life with you while your son should just fill the position of being your son or a ring bearer
It’s your wedding, tell them to suck it up for a day and they both do it
Tell them the both of them are walking you down the aisle and if they’re not capable of putting their differences aside for one day to show how much they love and care for you, then neither of them can.