Hi can I have a private post please.
Looking for peoples opinions.
My parter of 14 years (2 children together) has a drinking problem. It’s the same routine every Friday or Saturday night, he goes out stays out for 12 hours straight, this time it was 16 hours! 2.30 in a afternoon till 6 o’clock the next morning. Thinks it’s okay to drink and take drugs, then comes strolling home, like nothings happened. Now he knows I can’t stand it when he’s had a drink, he’s like a total different person, he gets nasty with words, doesn’t stop talking. Doesn’t leave me alone. There’s been times where I’ve had to go find him because he’s got in such a state. There’s also been times where he’s just walked out the house in a bad place and not told anyone where he is, I’ve spent hours and hours searching for him. He thinks all this is normal. Is it normal? Becuse I feel like I’m hitting breaking point, every time he does this I tell myself I can’t keep doing this. I’m loosing sleep over all this, I’m making myself exhausted. But each time he tells me he’s got no excuse for staying out that long. It’s like when he’s gone he thinks he’s living a single life. Like is this normal? Am I over reacting. X
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