Please could I have a PPP.
Im 32 years old, been with my husband since we were 16years old(married for 8 )We have 2 children 13&9. He has a gambling problem, 1 to 2 times a week he goes to the pub and gambles sometimes all of his wages. Along side gambling his drinking! He has no control! He doesnt answer the phone to me or comes
home early hours of the mornings. Every week I always here ” im going to change” or something on my lines. Im tired and Drained hearing it and waiting for him to mess up AGAIN!
I know I have my children but im scared to be alone, I have ADHD and rely on compain and I over think everything about if we arent together! The thought of him being or sleeping with someone else makes me so sad!
I have been with him for half of my life!
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You’re already alone . Life is too short to put up with this . Plus the kids are seeing it all 😩.
Your children deserve better
Gambling and drinking and ADHD what a perfect combo has he got adhd as well what a marriage made in heaven
I personally would have a trial separation no contact it could be a wake call he needs you will realise how well you do cope if you have to