Hey please post i am absolutely disgusted and heartbroken 💔
I will be contacting sexual health clinic however i think i have got genital hereps 🤮ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ ive found some sores down below. Now back in 2025 i was with a horrible horrible man.. he insisted no condoms to be used. I no i ahould have walked away then but i didnt We last had sex in march 2025.. i then found the love of my life my husband. Fallen pregnant had my booking bloods to revel i had syphilis ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ husband negative.. ive had the treatment for that and finished it. However i have been having problems down below and ive had internal swabs i am waiting for the results i have since checked and i have sores down below 💔😠i have now got it in my head i have genital hereps please is anyone loving with this condition at all? I 10000% believe it was the horrible person i was with previously and absolutely do not believe for one moment its my husband. X
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It could be just ingrown hairs or cysts.
You could also
Have something called litchens sclerosis it’s not sexual transmitted disease it’s what most women get in menopause and naturally get yr doctor to transfer to specialist to have a biopsy as this starts with sores itches and then they can get you on right medication for it xx
I think you had better get it checked out while you have the sores and tell your midwife. I think they need to know for your pregnancy notes in case you have an active flare up when you give birth. One of my friends is dealing with a very similar issue, unfortunately :/ I dont know all the details so don’t take my word for it and I dont want to freak you out, but definitely speak to your midwife about it.
you’re partner could’ve had it forever or even you could have , sometimes it never activates into sores, it is what it is, wait till you know for sure.
If youve got active sores then nows the time to get swabs to confirm x
It can lay dormant for years, but there are also so many other things it can be.
If you have got it , its for life but you can take medication for it so you dont get a flare up and pass it to you partner
If you are expecting a child with new partner that didn’t come from your old partner else your new partner would of caught it off you …
Personally I wouldn’t rule out your new partner he could have got meds and got treated so looks like it’s not from him.
Also with the hepes you would have had sores before now so is that the first time you are seeing these sounds like that’s recent too.
Also book an appointment with the nurse to also check or at sexual health clinic so they can actually see these sores also. X
There’s a good chance it was the ex but also a small chance if you’ve had a coldsore that you’ve accidentally self contaminated – it happens more than you think