Can i have an anonymous post please.
My husband of 8 years has a daughter from his teenage years he hasn’t been allowed contact since she was 3. The daughters mum recently dropped her to use saying shes too naughty and she won’t care for her anymore. The first time it happened we had her for a few weeks while with us she stole she told my husband im sorts of horrible names and told me ny husband was having women round the house when im not here. The daughter to stay with her nan. Now she has been dropped off again and my husband is committed to having her full time. We have 3 children already living at home the youngest being only 3. We sleep in the living room as we have no space at all. For the mean time my husband has moved to his mums with the daughter. The time we did have her suddenly our son wouldnt go to his room and started wetting the bed. My eldest daughter has PTSD living in unhealthy house when i was with her dad. His daugher is almost 14. Am i being unfair for not taking her on?
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