Was with my partner 2 years, he treated me loving and kind but also the bare minimum.
In may found out i was pregnant said he didnt want it. The last time i was at his after this i found a card off his ex saying love you. I was so uoset i messed his flat up.
Forward to now he msgs me daily like normal, says he wanta to be involved, but he gaslights and manipulates, dismisses my feelings when ever i try to get answers, he denys being with his ex. Hes moved to her area now and we have met for coffee twice but only on his terms.
I know me and the baby is a secret and i should cut him off. I love him and i know its done but i dont no how to let go. I know hes not gonna be a hands on dad hes not with his others. I feel like im in a trauma bond and dont no how to move forward without him, he triggers me yet when we havent spoke i hate it too 🥲 any advice on what you think i should do please or how i can move forward
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