Hi, could I have an anonymous post please.
I’m looking for some advice…
Me and my husband have two. Children, 4 & just under one. They both rely on me for everything, even on the weekends. My husband try’s to get involved and help but I end up taking over because I feel like he just makes every situation so much worse and dragged out. I know he has to find his way with them both. I’m really struggling to hand over the responsibility to him and my whole body aches when I can hear them screaming for me and I don’t respond.
The issue is that I am so exhausted, my baby still BF all night long and doesn’t go into his own bed yet so he is literally on me 24/7. I’m so tired and need some me time.
I also really struggle to parent when he is home because he just doesn’t do anything with the kids right ( I know he needs to find his own way but I have said so many times what works and what doesn’t ).
I do think life would be more enjoyable for everyone if I just let him do certain tasks with the kids but how can I when they just scream for me and reject him constantly. My heart aches when I can sense they want me and I don’t go, what if they don’t feel loved? But I need some time back, there are two parents in this house and i need it to feel that way now🥹
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There are 2 parents in the house… stop being a control freak and let the other parent do their thing.
You need to go and see your health visitor asap your baby should be using a bottle now and started solids