Some advice please,, cut a long story short,, i have 3 children older kids 16 and 11,,, baby not long turned 1,, different dad,,,, hes not in her life at all,, he left when i got pregnant,, id never really had deep thoughts about the situation untill now watching the days go by,, she only has me and her older 2 siblings 😠i have family and nieces n nephew but they dont bother at all,, there side,, when i was pregnant everyone and my family knew id be doing it alone and said they wud b there for me,,and no,,,im exhausted looking after a baby alone its tough,, no one to talk to apart from my children 😠no one for emotional support or just a lil help,, everyday i live in fear if something happens to me,,my lil girl will have no one and will go into care and be split from older children 🙈🙈 its sad i have these thoughts but its true,, it effects me soo bad daily,, its only me,, no one to go to,,even birthdays and Christmas its just me and my children,,, is there anyone i can talk to professional and get the help x
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Talk to your GP, also look for mother and baby groups that you and baby can attend together, for her to play and for you to meet other mums aswell that may also be in your situation too. Trust me I was in your situation 13yrs ago (was still with dad but he was never around, but after work he would go out) I had 3 young children at the time nearly 4yr old 2yr old and and 6months old on my days of from work I was fed up and looked for mother and baby groups helped me loads meet new moms and alot was single moms and struggling themselves and went to the group the same reason I did. My inbox is open if you need to talk xx
it sounds like you could well be suffering post natal depression on top off all the stress, speak to your doctor, do you get on well with your older kids dad if so could you possibly talk to him regarding your concerns as you never know he could put your mind at risk that he wouldn’t ever separate the kids, also time to speak up to your family and let them know how your feeling i’m sure they would be there for you more if they new how you was feeling they most likely just think your doing an amazing job and not needing the support but that’s not the case when your a single mummy, believe me i totally understand, it becomes a very lovely world at times, please find your voice and open up to your family and friends xx