Hi can I get an anon post please:
My Husband has informed me his sports team are planning a tour in 2028 for 10 days to either America or Africa.
We will have a 2 year old & 6 year old by then.
I work x3 13hr shifts a week so will probably have to waste my own annual leave.
I will probably divorce him if he goes. Am I being irrational?
We only have my Mum to help out.
It will cost around £2k.
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When youve been married as long as I have, you dont give a shit where they are or what they’re doing as long as they’re safe and not making a mess in the house.
My husband goes away for 10 days every year with his friend and i absolutely love it! Best 10 days of the year 😂
Let him go! You might want a trip of your own after he’s had his 🥳
Absolutely being irrational
Short answer – YES you are being irrational.
If you’re going to divorce him over something like that – then what are you even doing with him?
Yes you are being irrational. Let him go, and enjoy himself. My partners just got back off holiday without me and our daughter. It was nice to hear what he got up to :). If you don’t let him go, don’t expect him to let you do something
Send him off, take annual leave and enjoy the peace and quiet 😌 Or maybe that’s just me 23yrs in with 7 kids 🤣
Am I the only one who absolutely loves it when my husband goes on holiday 😂 I would be looking forward to that not moaning about it hahah enjoy the peace x
It’s only 10 days, enjoy your break from him!
Tell him he’s going but you are also planning a trip alone and he will have the kids then. What’s fair is fair