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I found out a week ago I am pregnant. I am 5 weeks 6 days. I was told I had secondary infertility about 8 years ago, a fibroid and scarring in my uterus from my last birth and it would be highly unlikely i would concieve because of this.
I have 2 children 13 and 10 both with Adhd and autism. Ive been in relationships and never used additional protection when in them and never got pregnant (id have loved more at that point).
Anyway I’ve been with my OH 2 years hes got a daughter from a PR and hes brilliant with her and were very much in love and happy.
Ive been an emotional wreck since I found out. The last 2 years I’ve really been enjoying life with my 2 and my partner and his daughter but we dont live together. We didnt want anymore children and with my health problems we never imagined it would happen.
I went for an early scan due to worrying it wouldn’t have implanted in the right place and the pregnancy is measuring normal, in the right place and my fibriods and scarring wasn’t visual so it feels like its ment to be.
I need some advice. Im very unsure if I want to continue the pregnancy but I’ve always been so against termination (please dont judge). Can I have some opinions or other people’s stories of what they chose. Im 35 and my partner is nearly 40 so this is a complete shock.
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