Anon please 🙏
Hi Mums 👋 New here and Just Looking for some advice. Currently going through a Breakup from a 3.5 Year relationship and im struggling to Navigate the relationship was good and First as they always are but 2 years in true colours shone through.. Little irrelivant lies Broke Trust and then the real cracks started to show. For 2 years we tried to Fix this relationship but bad habits of Smoking 🌱 and Playing Phone Games soon became a priority over Family Life and i was Fed up of Tackling the family life and feeling like i had another child to care for.. This lead to resentment i witheld love & affection until the relationship crumbled and he didnt love me anymore and He left. Thats the basics anyway there was alot more in between but its to much to go into.. My question is how do you process this kind of thing while being a parent. I have a 3.5 year old toddler and 2 Teens 13 & 15.. This man took on my toddler when he was 3 weeks old and through the years i realise through encounters with his own children that he couldnt care less they still were a part of our Family but all responsability was left to me. Now my toddler keeps asking for his dad who i Know couldnt Care less uses excuses not to see him such as me and you are not on talking terms so why would i come see him its hostile.. Deep down Honestly my son is better off without thr disapointment that i i know he would endure but im just a lone wolf in the situation i have no family to help me through so im curious how people got through similiar situations or what advice you would Give me. Im sad and lost grieving someone i know i dont want in my life i didnt know this was even a thing so any help or advice is much appreciated 🙏 x
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