Hello could I have a private post please 🙏
I have my 12 week scan today my partner was up for coming up to yesterday we got into an argument and his reason for not wanting to come we’re it’s 4th baby it’s not even here yet and we’re not really getting along at the minute those were his words am I right to feel upset alone and not cared for right now 😢 how can he not see this as important i don’t know if it’s my hormones or weather it as big deal as it feels to me x
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It’s a big deal
So Your on Your own till the baby arrives then he may put in an appearance wow .
U didn’t make this baby alone whether its baby number 1 or 4. He should be there for you if you want him to be there. Im sorry youre going through this , you dont need the stress and he needs to man up xx
4th baby together or his 4th baby. Not that it matters but if it’s his 4th baby and his others are with someone else how is he with them? Is he supportive. If it’s his 4th with you or you have had one together before. How is he as a father at home and is he supportive? Men and a weird species 🤣 I think often they don’t connect or feel it’s real until they are actually here but that doesn’t excuse how he made you feel
We have four. I just asked husband if he was any less excited about scan for fourth than first. He said no, and anything else would set off alarm bells.