Hi can i get anonymous post please
How can you go from loving the person you had 4 children with to not anymore (asking for myself ) me and partner have been with each other 12years now ansd have 4 children together 11,8,5,2 now my partner is a drinker and wen i say drinker every day and he also has a bad belly condins too (going to the loo about 8 times aday ) now he been to the doctors and stuff and they all say the same thing you need to stop drinking but he wont even iv tried to say you need to cut down on it it gets me no where but i just feel like he only evey cares about himself kind of .like today i woke up and i was very dizzy to the point of passing out and my 11 year old help me coz i didnt want to wake my partner up coz he takes medication to sleep and he doesnt egt the best of sleep with our kids waking up earlyer but anyways i said no its fine dont wake dad up to which point i try to stand up to go the loo and my legs give way i think i pass out im not sure but my daughter got my partner up to say mam is going dizzy and passing out to which he replyed with oh god sake and came down stairs and ask if i had eaten anything at all yet to which i said no due to feeling sick and he said thats probs why then and not getting enough sleep (my 8 years is waking up at 3am and not going back to sleep till 5-6am duno why ) and all hes doen is say no one ask how i am or if im okay wen im poorly all the time iv said i do ask him but i get nothing just you know imnnot okay and hes goen to bed now saying its bullshit that im going dizzy and stuf because im not eating i do jist not alot but no cares for me and hes pissed off at today
Im just really hoping anyone has any advice on what i shud do or say to him at thia point coz im getting sick of it really .
Thank you
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