Can I remain anonymous please but just a little rant what do you do when your family won’t do anything unless you organise it the last few weekends ive asked my family on a Sunday where will we go for a Sunday family day out but all I get i dont mind wherever and when I make suggestions they say no to everything I’m getting so annoyed with it all even mothers day we spent the day sitting on the couch watching TV as I hadn’t organised anything same for my birthday we are a family of two adults 21 yr old and 11 yr old any suggestions
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So are you the mum ?
Your husband should have organised something for you bday and Mother’s Day. Why didn’t he???
The 21 year old probably had their own life
But just say to your husband and 11 year old we are going here so get ready. Stop giving them choices that they can turn down. The only option is to get their arse into gear and get ready for the day out
In reality it’s your husband you should be directing your frustration at.
Have you spoken to him and told him he needs to organise days out
You could always just take yourself out for the day and meet with friends. Leave them at home
If your family can’t be bothered to make suggestions and say no to everything you suggest then I would leave them to it and go and enjoy your day to yourself and leave them at home! Or I would battle with the 21 year old but the 11 year old I would be saying come on get ready we are going out and not give them a choice 🤷♀️