Private post please. Don’t really know what i am hoping to get from this but don’t really have anyone else. I feel like the worse mum ever. My little girl goes to a childminder 4 days a week as I work and have to do extra hours sometimes so family look after her but over the last few days I just feel like I am palming her off to everyone else and feel she is going to resent me for it. She is only 2 and gets spoilt where ever she goes but still feel bad. No bashing please
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Childminder? Do you mean a babysitter? You do what you have to do . Every parent that is a good parent does. It sounds like you are a single parent and doing the best you can. Don’t beat yourself up about it.
Don’t fell bad u have to work to keep a roof over her head it’s just probably mum guilt every mother gets it as long as she’s being look after we’ll she will thank u in years to cum