Can i get a private post please.
I’m looking for advice.. whilst I know I’m lucky to get any child maintenance.. I have three children with my EX and he pays £70 a week… he has them two nights a month! We have an a set up without CM involved. Should I go through them? I personally feel like in this day and age £70 a week is nothing for three children and barely scratches the surface. Or am i wrong and just take it without questioning it?
For context I left him due to him doing something unforgivable whilst I was sleeping and I had said no prior to falling asleep (after a night out with the girls and a few drinks in my system) … He used to accuse me of cheating all the time and take my phone/hack into my accounts. When we split he manipulated me to sign over my housing association house – I pay triple his rent now.
Amy advice is greatly received.. Please be kind.
Thank you
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I get £100 a week for 2 kids and I still don’t think that is enough !
Check on the cm calculator first if you his know his wage and then if you can discuss with him if not you can but tty
I get £14 a month if I’m lucky for my daughter off her sperm donor
I get £146 a month for 1 child an dad has him 8 nights a month that’s through CSA you can do the online calculator if you know his income and try figure something between you both xx
Have you done a online calculation?