I have been seeing my baby’s dad for 5 years and we were together a year and had our son unplanned. He is a good dad and comes round nearly every day to help bath him but in terms of me and him he says he doesent know what he wants, we don’t have an intimate relationship but he says he loves me. We don’t speak to anyone else or go out on dates ect… he has always been cagey with his emotions towards me ever since I met him I don’t know what to do, it’s been like this since our son was born 16 months ago and it’s really getting me down because I feel guilty if I move on but lacking affection if I don’t, I don’t know what the right choice is to make
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Why are you letting him make you feel the way you do. Why feel guilty, your not together, your not in an intimate relationship so your just co parenting. Dont let the guilt trip of he loves you hold you back. Move on and find someone that deserves you.
Ask him straight out and tell him if he is not interested, you will find someone who is. Life is too short.